Ok, so maybe I was a little harsh, just then. I am simply trying to point out that no one can change your life but you. I guess it would not be laziness, it would be more of a "not wanting to change the situation, no matter how much you say you want to", kind of thing. Gina even says it herself to others... "if your not gonna change it, then stop bitchin about it". Maybe its an attention getter for something to talk/bitch about. Who knows/cares?
I believe, you can do/change anything... you just have to do it. And saying it cant be done cause of this or that is just a bunch of excuses. Its always blamed on someone/something.... but its your life people, not mine.